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There’s a book

Soft Places to Land

A long letter about cats, kindness, and the slow work of trust.

A small, honest book about how this work began, what I’ve learned along the way, and how anyone — with patience, a kettle, and a soft voice — can begin doing it too.

Every cent of the proceeds goes back into the bowls.

Available as paperback & Kindle.

all proceeds
→ the cats

“A quiet, kind, often funny book about what it actually means to keep showing up for someone who can’t ask for help in words.”

— an early reader, who refused to give their name

A peek inside

What you’ll find in here.

Six chapters. None of them very long. All of them written at the kitchen table, late, with a cat on my lap.

  1. 01

    The first one

    How it starts. Always: with a small, frightened life and a half-open door.

  2. 02

    Sit on the floor and wait

    Why most of this work is patience. Why hands move slowly. Why voices stay soft.

  3. 03

    When the vet calls back

    How to hear hard news. How to make harder decisions. How to keep going afterwards.

  4. 04

    Raven

    The long story. The one that broke me open. The one that named everything that came after.

  5. 05

    The colony you can’t see

    Feeding the cats nobody else feeds. The bowls, the gravel, the quiet mornings before sunrise.

  6. 06

    How you might begin

    If you’ve been thinking about doing this work in your own town — here’s the very first step.

Who it’s for

Mostly: anyone who has ever crouched on a sidewalk.

If you’ve been thinking about beginning

This is the book I would have wanted on day one. It’s a roadmap and a hand on the shoulder, in equal measure.

If you already do this work

You’ll recognise yourself in here. And maybe feel a little less alone in some of the harder parts.

If you just love cats

It’s also, very much, a love letter. To the small, brave, ridiculous lives that share our houses.

If you want to support this work

Buying the book is one of the kindest, most lasting ways to do that. It buys a copy on your shelf and food in someone’s bowl.

Ready to read?

Available now on Amazon. The kindle edition is the most accessible — the paperback is, well, the cosy one.